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Showing posts with label Family Life. Show all posts
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What do Disney Cast Members want Guests to remember?


Cast Members
9. You Can’t Park Your Stroller Anywhere you Want
There are designated stroller areas for a reason. Often times guests park their strollers wherever they want, which can cause serious problems (like stealing) and is a safety concern if left in areas crowded by guests.
8. Don’t Cut In Line
We all wait in line for long lengths of time to enjoy our favorite rides and shows, so skipping the line isn’t the best answer to enjoying these experiences quicker. Not only do the guests become irate at times, but cast members are put in a weird situation of intervening.
7. Get Fastpasses Out
While fastpasses are used to experience minimal to no wait time, the wait time in the line can be increased by those who aren’t ready to scan their bands. Make sure you are prepared and have your MagicBands or park tickets out to make it easier for the guests behind you and the cast members who are keeping record of how many people are walking through the attraction.
6. Cast Members Don’t Make The Rules
In any profession, we can tend to complain or become upset with the wrong employees. Cast members are no different. If you are not satisfied with something, remember that they do not make the rules. If you do feel the need to complain or address the situation further, be sure to speak to the right cast member.
5. Follow Directions During Parades and Shows
Cast members always try their best to keep the ‘traffic’ of walking guests moving smoothly, but it can be very difficult to accomplish this when people stop in the middle of the pathways to watch. Find a safe and designated area to watch the parade without having to agitate the cast members with keeping the flow of traffic going.
4. Have Patience
There are some issues that can’t be resolved right away. Cast members always try their best to accommodate any guest no matter what their situation may be.
3. Don’t Try To Argue About The Height Requirement on a Ride Height requirements are strict to ensure the safety of all guests. There is a reason why cast members turn away guests in this predicament. Please be considerate to them and understand that they are just following protocol.
2. They Love It When You Show Your Appreciation
Small acts for kindness are surely appreciated by cast members. Keep in mind that they are often dealing with negative scenarios that guests have rather than positive ones. A compliment goes a long way, and the best part is, its free!
1. The Goal of Cast Members is to Put a Smile On Your Face
Cast members are always trying to give some extra magic to guests on a daily basis. There have been times where they have taken guests straight to the front of ride, upgraded a resort room, and even had “Mickey” pay for their dinner or souvenir. Offering extra magic is what cast members are known for and they do a great job of doing so!
BONUS TIP: Consider planning and booking your next Disney trip with an Authorized Disney Vacation Planner you can trust like SIMPLY MAGICAL VACATIONS. They’ll help you get the best Walt Disney World deal, share expert advice and their services are totally FREE! It’s genius!

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Thanksgiving Menu







Fresh Cranberry Relish

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Declutter Challenge: Week 1

The kitchen, Panty and Dining Rooms:



Begin small... with the fridge & freezer, be mindful of expiration dates and realistic about what will be eaten.  Restaurant leftovers should be eaten within three days of restaurant visit, while home-made meals could be eaten within five-seven days.
Be mindful of fruit and vegetable storage, so food can last longer. 


 Move on to the largest food storage area, DRY foods and spices expire too!


As you can see Mondays task was to clean out the fridge/freezer.  I had already taken the food off my second shelf in the fridge before I remembered to take a picture and there was no way I was going to put it back so I apologize for that.  But this task wasn't as long and scary as I thought it would be.  One thing I was SO grateful for was this fridge tip I tried a couple months back.  It made the job WAY easier!  If you are going to do the Challenge I highly suggest you do it too! - See more at: http://www.day2daysupermom.com/2013/09/declutter-confessions-week-1-kitchen.html#sthash.hLnmREQl.dpuf
As you can see Mondays task was to clean out the fridge/freezer.  I had already taken the food off my second shelf in the fridge before I remembered to take a picture and there was no way I was going to put it back so I apologize for that.  But this task wasn't as long and scary as I thought it would be.  One thing I was SO grateful for was this fridge tip I tried a couple months back.  It made the job WAY easier!  If you are going to do the Challenge I highly suggest you do it too! - See more at: http://www.day2daysupermom.com/2013/09/declutter-confessions-week-1-kitchen.html#sthash.hLnmREQl.dpuf
As you can see Mondays task was to clean out the fridge/freezer.  I had already taken the food off my second shelf in the fridge before I remembered to take a picture and there was no way I was going to put it back so I apologize for that.  But this task wasn't as long and scary as I thought it would be.  One thing I was SO grateful for was this fridge tip I tried a couple months back.  It made the job WAY easier!  If you are going to do the Challenge I highly suggest you do it too! - See more at: http://www.day2daysupermom.com/2013/09/declutter-confessions-week-1-kitchen.html#sthash.hLnmREQl.dpuf

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Meal Planning

If you're new to all this, the easiest way to start is by planning a week's worth of dinners. Once you develop a routine, it becomes second nature. Here are some suggestions on how to get started.
  • Consult a cookbook for tips on using leftovers. For example, use Sunday's pot roast for Tuesday's roast beef hash or vegetable beef soup.
  • Plan around the basic food groups: whole grains, meat and poultry, dairy and eggs, veggies and fruits. Keep your pantry and fridge stocked with staples like brown rice and whole-wheat pasta, and common vegetables that will keep fresh for a while, like potatoes, carrots, onions and garlic.
  • Cook double or triple portions to prepare extra food for the next day or so.
  • Try to plan around your family's activities. Save the easiest meals, like soup and sandwiches, for the busiest days.
  • Once you have a few recipes in mind, print out a blank calendar for the week, and write down meals for each day.
  • Before you shop, jot down all of your recipe ingredients, and inventory your pantry and fridge to avoid buying duplicate items.
  • Keep a notepad attached to the fridge, and write down ingredients as they're used up. If you're like most cooks, you tend to use the same things repeatedly.
  • Don't worry about deviating from your meal plan. If you come across a good deal at the grocery store, take advantage of it. For example, if rotisserie chicken is on sale and cheaper than a whole fryer, pick up one or more and freeze the extra.• 
  • Repeat your menu every two weeks for a season. Most of us don’t mind eating a meal twice a month, and when you create a two-week menu plan, you can be set for a few months. Try creating a two-week plan for the summer.
  • Rather than starting from scratch each week, I have a template of the general types of foods I cook each day of the week and the number of times I use each main food. In other words each week I cook:
    • 1-2 Chicken meals
    • 1 slow cooker or soup meal
    • 1 beef
    • 1grain/pasta based meal
    • 1meatless meal
    • 1 Turkey/Pork based meal
  • As you find recipes your family enjoys, make them core recipes that get re-used every few weeks. Try to build up about 20 of these and you won’t ever be bored with your meals.
  • Protein is typically the most expensive part of the meal so if you can use less expensive cuts of meat and stretch them, it might allow you to buy organic and grass-fed rather than conventional meats.
  • A basic easy recipe can taste completely different just by changing the spices. 
  • Don't let the kids be picky! Encourage them AND reward them to TRY everything! Kids are required to try one bite of everything cooked before they can have more of any one food.

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Meal Planning 2

Here's MY plan!

Mondays – Meatless Monday!
Tuesdays – Beef/Turkey Meal

Wednesdays – Chicken Meal
Thursdays –Slow Cooker

Fridays – Take-out (left-overs/home-made pizza in a cash strapped week)

Saturdays – Left-overs, Soup, Salad, and/or Sandwiches

Sundays – Pork, Ham, Chicken or Fish Meal

 

I plan a month out, and repeat for 3 months (a full season).

Spring time Menu (March, April & May)
  1.  Cheese Quesadilla with rice & beans
  2.  Beef empanadas, with leftover rice & beans
  3.  Honey-glazed chicken stir fry  
  4.  Slow cooker Minestrone Soup (leftover beans)
  5.  Home-made Caramelized Onion Pizza
  6.  Left-over Honey-glazed Chicken Panini 
  7. Tomato Basil Salmon 
  8.  Bow Tie Pasta w peas 
  9.  Beef Stir fry with veggies & brown rice
  10. Paprika chicken & baby greens 
  11. Chicken and sausage gumbo (over brown rice)
  12. Ratatouille (leftover stir fry veggies)
  13. Baked Eggplant
  14. Beef stroganoff and sauteed asparagus in olive oil
  15. Chicken spaghetti casserole; sauteed broccoli in olive oil
  16. Slow Cooker Sausage & Peppers
  17. Home-made Mushroom, ricotta pizza
  18. Grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato-basil soup
  19. Baked spiral ham, steamed veggies, baked potatoes (freeze leftovers for soup)
  20. Spring Panzanella 
  21. Hungarian Goulash and mixed green salad
  22.  Broccoli chicken bake and salad (additional baked chicken set aside for pizza)
  23.  Slow Cooker Turkey Gumbo
  24. Homemade Buffalo Chicken Pizza (baked chicken)
  25. Baked Potato Soup (add ham)
  26. Maple Salmon with asparagus
  27. Sun-dried tomato and oregano pasta with salad
  28. Grilled Turkey Burgers with oven-baked veggie fries
  29. Chicken fettuccine with broccoli and salad
  30. Slow-Cooker Cilantro Lime Chicken
  31. Pizza pinwheels 
  32. Avocado, Chicken Lime Soup 
  33. Baked Pork Tenderloin, baby spinach & baked veggies




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Banana Pancakes

These happen to be Paleo, refined sugar & gluten free... They also happen to be delicious. 






 { Serves 2-3 }
 1 mashed, super ripe banana
2 eggs
3 tablespoon coconut flour
Coconut oil for the pan
1/8 teaspoon nutmeg
1/4 teaspoon baking soda
1 tablespoon of ground flax-seed/chia seed [ this really, really holds the mixture together ]
1 teaspoon of vanilla
1 teaspoon cinnamon
(sometimes I add almond butter or (non-paleo) oats )


Optional: all-natural maple syrup or honey, berries,  and/or Greek yogurt

+ Directions: Toss banana & egg in food processor (I use the Pampered Chef Manual Food Processor, super easy). Add my flax-seed, cinnamon & vanilla. 
Put the coconut oil in the pan [ on low-medium heat ]. Add a silver dollar-sized amount to the pan. Let the cake set for thirty seconds [ or when the center bubbles ] & flip it! Enjoy!

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Five Year gap

Over the past five years, I have been home with my little family, making memories and filling time with every part-time venture I could get my hands on, while still trying to devote all of me to child-rearing.

Now, with two of the three school age and the third manageable with my husbands schedule and attention, I can return some focus to furthering my career.

With the enrollment forms filled out for each of our school-goers, the sheer fear is setting in. I've been hard at home, balancing budgets, managing multiple tasks and deadlines, mediating disputes, homeschooling and a whole bunch of other (actually paid) part-time gigs.

I feel like I have a ton of valuable skills, and a willingness to learn 'the ways of the world' in any school environment... So what gives?  Do the years I spent with my children invalidate the years of education and previous time I spent in a classroom? Do the part-time jobs I have had over the past five years not count?

I am looking at my resume, gleaming with experience and lacking the-so-called gap, many stay-at-home-moms returning to the workforce have, and yet it isn't enough. I have been home for five years - five years tutoring, - five years curriculum writing - five years homeschooling and yet, that's what these potential school districts see, a FIVE YEAR GAP. Suddenly, my bachelors and masters degrees are irrelevant, my current positions, (gym teacher, online educator & curriculum design assistant) don't even matter. 

So what's a return-to-work mom to do? Call in favors, and settle for any 'in' that turns up, just to spruce up the resume.

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SPA Birthday for Preshoolers

Dry Ingredients:
1 cup baking soda
1/2 cup citric acid
1/2 cup corn starch

Mix dry ingredients together until completely combined and smooth. (I ground up oats in my blender and added about 1/4 cup of that too. It gives the bombs a cool textured look AND it’s good for your skin as well.)
Wet Ingredients:
  • 2 1/2 Tbsp sunflower or other light oil (almond oil would be good too.)
  • 3/4 Tbsp water
  • 1/2 to 1 teaspoon of Lavender essential oil (depending on how strong your oil is)
  • 1/4 tsp Vitamin E oil (optional, but recommended – an antioxidant which preserves the oils)
  • 1/4 teaspoon borax (an emulsifier)
  • witch hazel in a spray bottle (it doesn’t come in a spray bottle, you will have to put it in one)
  • vegetable or other natural colorant (I didn’t feel like messing with color, so I left them white)
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    Whisk all of the wet ingredients and Borax together in a large bowl
  •  Drizzle slowly onto the dry ingredients and blend thoroughlyMix with your hands until all of the ingredients are combined.

    bath bombs
    Lightly spray the mixture 2-3 times with witch hazel.

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    The mixture should just start to hold together when pressed in your hand, like slightly moist fine sand. If it’s not sticking together, spray a little more witch hazel.

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    Pack TIGHTLY into molds. I ordered these fun ones off of Amazon.com, but you could use anything really.  Even a small (1/4 cup) measuring cup.

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    Let the bath bombs dry and harden overnight before you pick them up. I got a little impatient (who, ME?) and tried to take them out of the molds a few hours later and they would not cooperate. In the morning, however, the ones I hadn’t messed with were hard as a rock. Silly me. No worries though, the crumbly stuff works just as well in the bath. :-)
    This recipe made about 16 bath bombs that were 1-5/8″ inches in diameter. Can’t wait to make some more!
    bath bombs
    bath bombs

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How to have a Winning Wardrobe

Purge ruthlessly.
Keep only those pieces that you absolutely love and that you currently wear on a regular basis. If something doesn’t fit, has holes or stains, is out of season, or you just really don’t like it anymore, it needs to come out.
Determine each item’s fate. Just because it comes out right now doesn’t mean you have to throw it out or send it to Goodwill. If you’re anything like me, you probably have clothes in a variety of sizes, some of which you may still really like and hope to fit into again. Store a bin of “skinny clothes” to pull out - when you lose the weight.
Invest in great hangers. It is such a simple thing, but I found that buying a limited quantity of really nice hangers was the best motivation to finally weed out everything I didn’t love. It really wasn’t a huge investment but psychologically it made all the difference. And frankly, even inexpensive clothes seem luxurious when hanging on nice hangers.
Minimize your losses. Clothes & accessories that are in good shape can be brought to a consignment shop  or sold via Craigslist, eBay, Facebook, or garage sale.
Make it easy to keep things in order. Set up a no-fail system that is simple to maintain. I have clearly labeled baskets for the things that are hard to fold–bras, panties, swimwear, socks, pajamas, & accessories. I love keeping the laundry hamper in my closet as well–it makes sorting laundry so much simpler!
Once you’ve managed to pare your closet down to the bare minimum and have kept the pieces you truly love, keep it that way! When buying something new, choose quality over quantity. Resist the urge to buy something simply because it is on sale. You are always better off buying ONE piece that you love than TEN items that are just okay.
Re-evaluate regularly. It is a good idea to re-assess, re-sort, and re-evaluate your closet every few months. Once a season double check to make sure that your items are still in good shape, that they still fit, and that they are free of stains & holes. If necessary, pull seasonal items out of storage to add to the rotation, and store any items that are no longer seasonally appropriate.

Look of the Day photo | Black Opaque TightsLittle black dressesClassic cardigansWhite button upsBallet flats wardrobe stapleClassic trench coatsClassic riding bootsBootcut jeansBlack blazers
Lightweight scarvesClassic black pumpsKhaki pants wardrobe stapleV neck teeClassic black dress pantsSkinny jeans wardrobe staplePeacoats

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"What did you say?" How to annoy a mom...

1) Where do you get your energy from? 
Honestly 90% of the time ALL moms are tired, down right exhausted, but we do what we have to. This is the same for moms of 1 or moms of 12, and all those moms in between.


or the opposite

2) You look tired.
Honestly 90% of the time ALL moms are tired, down right exhausted, but we do what we have to. This is the same for moms of 1 or moms of 12, and all those moms in between.


3) Gee, I haven't seen you in a while, you've aged.
Clearly all people have not read the books of manners. It is NEVER okay to point out someone looks older, unless they are five.



4) Do you work?... No like, a real job?
Anything a mom does is work, it takes twenty-five minutes minimum to walk to the bathroom. Some moms work in the house, some moms work outside the home, some for a few hours, some for many hours... regardless of their pay schedule, all moms are on call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. THAT is a REAL job.
 

5) You look like such a mom..
This just seems like a slam. Is it the pony tail? The workout clothes? The ratty sneakers? The mini-van? The oatmeal on my shirt? Or the kid who just wiped his nose on my pants? Why must you point out the obvious?

6) Are they all yours?
 It is mind boggling to me why a mom of three would hear this.. But I have. If a circus of small children were following me, I could understand this, but they are not.

7) Wow you have your hands full.
If my children are mouthy, loud, obnoxious, rude or unruly, you can THINK this, THINK it.. In your brain. DO NOT say it! My hands are perfectly fine. My children are wonderful.

8) You look really pretty today.
I know, I know,.. It sounds nice. Its awfully condescending to say "today", how did I look yesterday?

9) Oh, she's crying aren't you going to do something?
Perhaps you didn't see her crying, isn't it obvious that I already DID something. And Don't ask me why she's crying.. perhaps you have not seen the FB posting and blog postings that little ones cry for anything, or nothing... a lot!

10) When are you due?
 Do not ever, ever, ever ask this... Unless I shout "My water broke", first look for a water bottle, THEN assume I am pregnant.

11) Oh just give him some candy... one piece won't hurt
Oh, I am sorry doctor,  didn't see your degrees there. One piece CAN hurt FYI, ever here of anaphylactic shock?

12) Enjoy every moment.. it goes by so fast
Oh, why didn't I think of that?! Actually, some moments stink, if I am being honest... and I will most likely look back on those moments and say "Thank God that's over" and not "Oh how I miss changing diapers and being peed on" or "I really wish someone would wipe their snotty nose on my leg before I run to the store in my ratty sneakers and mini-van"

13)  Are you still breast feeding, co sleeping, rear facing...??? (or any other PARENT choice)
Unless I brought it up, I do NOT want to talk to you about it, strange lady in line at the supermarket...

14) Woah he's huge... shes so thin.... Is that baby healthy?
Seriously? Did I ask you about that double chin you're sporting or the filth under your fingernails? Do not question my child during a growth spurt, or any time for that matter...He is healthy, so is she...let it go.

15) Are you done (having children) yet?
 Oh, sorry, are my happy, well-adjusted, well-cared for children taking up your oxygen? Don't question the growth, or lack their of of my family. WE we stop having children, how and when we choose to.

16) Were they all planned?
 See above... and yes, they were ALL someone's plan. May not have been mine, or my husbands... but somebody's.

17) Are you sure she's allergic? Maybe she just doesn't like it...
Phew! Why didn't I think of that!? Oh Honey, just eat it, even though you are vomiting and its running right through your rear, you are covered in hives and can't breathe, this strange -looking , double-chinned, filthy finger-nailed, doctor lady in the super market line said it was okay...

18) Oh... you home school?
Yup. Yup I do.
That explains it I suppose... My brilliant, well adjusted children who happen to be exceeding all expectations of their peers, and can clearly out perform you ANY day at your mind-numbing mediocre job...

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Affordable Outdoor Family Friendly Activities

 In a world awash with technology, it can be hard to find activities for kids that involve putting down the iPADs and getting outside. One of the best ways to encourage your children to embrace the outdoors is to take them some place new and exciting. This will break the monotonous routine and ultimately allow more acceptance of a new adventure.
  It’s unfortunate, but to a child, being sent outside can sometimes feel like a punishment or a burden. (Some children are sent outside as a consequence of making a nuisance of themselves indoors.) Parents need to lead by example. Get out there and get active. Let your inner child come out and play, gain some fresh air, exercise and reconnect with life’s simpler pleasures.
  Some days, my son's main interaction with nature consists of playing Angry Birds, and I know I have a a problem! Exploring and ruining 'a muck' outdoors is a chance to be kids and explore, without any kind of restrictions or limitations as long as they remain safe, and allow their creativity to explore and their imaginations to blossom.
 Winter is finally over, and those of us who have been stuck in the house due to cold weather can finally breathe a sigh of relief. It's time to venture out for some fresh air, vitamin D, and exercise. Outdoor activities need to be a regular occurrence, so variety is a must.  Need some ideas for outdoor activities? Here are some low-cost or free timeless ideas for encouraging creative and independent play:


Visit KaBOOM
This interactive map lists different playgrounds, fields, pools and other play spaces in your area. Visitors can add playgrounds to the user-generated map, upload pictures and rate them. 

Chalk Adventure
Sidewalk chalk is one of the most fun and affordable outdoor activities for kids. Set your family’s imagination loose and hit the pavement to create a family art gallery. Every family member can draw their picture on their own section of sidewalk.

Plant a Garden
By planting a garden, a child can experience the satisfaction that comes with caring for something over time, while observing the cycle of life first hand. Gardening can also bring environmental awareness to kids at an earlier age. 

Play the Backyard Matching Game
Go outside with your kids and have them close their eyes, as you fill a paper bag with items from the backyard. Gather pine cones, leaves, rocks, pebbles, flowers, etc. Have your children reach in the bag, pull out an object and hunt for a similar one in your yard. Continue until each item from the bag has a match. 

Create a Backyard Scavenger Hunt
Make your own scavenger hunt handout or find one online at Go Explore Nature. See how many things you and your children can find. 

Make a Nature Notebook
A nature notebook can help your kids keep track of their observations. Spend thirty minutes a day finding interesting things to put in their notebook. They can draw pictures of what they see or take notes. 

Conduct a Bug Hunt
Turn over a rock or look under a flower pot for some creepy crawlers. Using a bug container will allow your kids to look closely at different worms and insects without getting too grossed out -- just make sure to put the bugs back where you found them.  

Camp-out
Have a camp out in your backyard. A campfire is a great idea, as long as you check it with your local fire departments. You may need a permit, or your area may not allow campfires.

Go on Day Trips
Whether it's a trip to a park, museum or field, going on a day trip is a fun way for you and your kids to get out of the house and learn more about nature. 


Tennis Anyone?
The portability of tennis rackets and balls is a gift. It's a blast.

Go Fishing
A fairly decent fishing pole can be purchased at a store for as little as $12 - $15. A family can make a whole day out of fishing (leisurely of course). It's simple. Pack the car with a couple of fishing poles a bucket and bait.

Outdoor Movie Night
Thanks to our outdoor plugs, when the weather permits we play a movie via the laptop in the back yard. We view on blankets under starry skies (it's really fun!). It's a great time to make Smores too.

Explore a Rotten Log
That dead tree or stump can be a great science lesson. Kids can investigate and note everything they see: what's on the surface, moss, holes bored into the log, bugs and more. Ask your child questions about what bugs they saw and what they think they were doing there -- like finding shelter or gathering food. 

Bubbles
Bubbles are a timeless kid favorite. Let them blow the bubbles - they will be so proud of their accomplishment! Or you blow the bubbles and they can run around the yard trying to pop them. You can buy bubbles at the dollar store or other discount outlets for cheap, or you can look up online how to make them at home using dish soap.


Build a Bird Feeder
Get a bird feeder or make one yourself using a pinecone and peanut butter, and put it outside near a window. Kids can look out the window whenever they please and it's an easy and simple way to keep kids connected with nature. 

Head Out on a Nature Walk
Whether you live in a city, a suburb or a rural area, a nature walk is a simple way to get your kids outside. Even just walking around your block, kids can observe trees, bugs and birds they see along the way. 

Scavenger hunt
Scavenger hunts are a great way to keep kids busy. Make a list of everyday items they can find in the yard. For younger kids who can't read, you can use pictures. For example, your list could include a pinecone, a green leaf, a smooth stone, a stick, and so on. The kids will love exploring the backyard and competing to see who can complete their list first.


Geocaching
Technology is not commonly associated with getting outside however, but geocaching is an easy way to combine the two. It's is a high-tech treasure hunt, where users search for treasures or "caches" using a GPS device to pinpoint the correct location. 

Take a Penny Walk
To make a walk with your kids a little more interesting, let a penny lead the way! When you come to a road, turn or intersection, flip a penny. If it lands on heads, go right and if it lands on tails, turn left. 

Waterway Stay-cation
Instead a day at the lake, blow up an inflatable pool, make frozen juice pops, break out the suntan lotion and spend the day at your own private beach.


 Bike Riding
Our city boasts plenty of canal paths and trails designated for bikers. The internet and local town recreation offices will typically provide access to biking trails in your town.

How do you get outside with your kids?

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My husband is NOT perfect...

but he IS perfect FOR ME!

We all know the saying that NO ONE is perfect, and yet we ll search for that perfect someone.
Early in our marriage, I found myself chit chatting with other wives and uttering the usual spousal complaints just to fit in the conversation, only to later to ponder "we're not like that, are we?"
I never truthfully knew the answer... until now.
After ten years together, I can say in complete confidence, we are perfect... for one another.

I knew he was kind when we met, knew he was a gentleman when we dated, knew he was thoughtful when we affianced, knew he was awesome when we wed, and learned through years of marriage and parenting that is IS amazing.  Over the years I have been able to see him in action rather than just trusting what I believed about him. He works hard and plays equally as hard. He is a great father to our three kids. He honors most of my requests and has a caring heart that is seen whenever someone needs help.

Don't get me wrong, our marriage is not perfect

Whose is? Liars that’s who.

Our marriage is beautiful, trying, frustrating, fun, challenging, exciting and mundane. It is all these things and so much more.

When we began our relationship, I was barely 22 years old, still a baby. Fast forward to the present and this beautiful (physically and in every other way) man still excites me, intrigues me, and makes me so proud.
So you see, my marriage is not perfect, but my husband is perfect for me.

I know this is true, because:
1. My husband is my best friend. I'm 110% myself, I feel free, and enjoy the little things in life together.
2. He is is the one I want next to me in my deepest, darkest moments.
3. We're capable of being away from each other, but neither of us like it one bit.
4. He is my #1 choice for the person I want with me when I splurge on my favorite treat, watch an embarrassing television show, or forget my manners at the dinner table because I'm too exhausted that day.
5. We compromise with each other.
6. I care about his needs more than my own.
7. We both recognize, understand and respect that throughout life we will change and grow, but you'll always change and grow together. Life is about enjoying the stages with each other.
8. When something happens—terrible, exciting or completely insignificant—he is always the first person I want to tell.
9. He balances me out, and I do the same.
10. I know that no matter what, he will always stand by me and be on my side.

I take a moment, sometimes longer, every day, to think about just how lucky I am to have found my most perfect person on this earth.

( Hub's FB - RunStreak ) Hub's Blog - The Run Streak )


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Not another Birthday!

 Photo: A look back at the runDisney kids' races from Marathon Weekend...as told by my kids!

http://www.dadsgottheruns.com/2014/01/the-disney-world-rundisney-kids-races.html
Milestones.
We hear about them from other moms, doctors, magazines and yet some don't phase us at all. Then, out of no where. BAM!
One slaps you right in the face... ONE....
The first tooth is cute, first smile is amazing, first steps astonishing... all firsts that I have witnessed with pure joy in my heart, it didn't matter how young these milestones were reached.
That first birthday is a painful, sorrowful experience for this mom!
My oldest son's first birthday was THE worst. I felt like my baby was taken away from me...
My daughter's first birthday was ironically not as awful, while she was walking around and talking, she was still a bald-headed beauty... still my little baby.
My youngest son's first birthday is slowly breaking my heart, as much as I long for just. one. more. baby. I know it will be extremely difficult to get the hubs on board. So not only am I saddened by my little walking, babbling, brilliant baby becoming a climbing, screaming toddler and leaving his "months" behind, but I am also mourning the fact that our home may never again be graced with the presence of an infant.
It's HIS day, I know this...
I will continue to celebrate him and all that he is for YEARS to come, but for now, I am going to hold him for as long as he'll let me, and "pretend" he's 11 and 1/2 months old for just a little bit longer.
Photo: The birthday boy, 1 year old today! #HappyBirthday

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SELL it!

Part of the PURGE series......

1. Utilize the power of the INTERNET!

 There re Facebook groups, online newspapers, eBay and Craigslist. Get your STUFF out there!

2. Post good photos.

Use a “real” digital camera, not a poor quality camera/camera-phone.Take several different photos from various angles.

3. Write an accurate description and price accordingly.

Disclose any flaws that you know of. Avoid stating how much you paid for an item. 

4. Note what area of town you are in.

Everyone else in the world is not a zip code geek, so don't rely on that alone. State a brief location in comparison to major local cities (ie 20 minutes outside of Hartford)

5. Be ready to respond to inquiries.

If you’re not going to be able to check your email for some reason, you may want to include your phone number.

6. Don’t waste time on deadbeats.

If someone is already negotiating for a lower price, or has a hundred questions, don’t waste time on them unless they are the only inquiry. Although it is considered courteous to offer the item on a first-come, first-served basis, if there are more than a few responses skip over anyone giving an indication they will be difficult to work with.

7. Specify when you want to get rid of it.

Be wary of no-shows, and be ready to reschedule with others. Sometimes you will have someone not show up, or cancel, or decide they don’t want it. If you'd rather not, state a "must be gone by" day/time in the post.

8. Meet at a location other than your home.

You never know what kind of person is going to show up and it is easier to tell someone to meet you at the McDonald’s at a certain intersection than to give them directions to your home. Be sure to pick a place that is convenient for you.

9. Follow the rules and be courteous.

If your item doesn’t sell, re-post it according to the guidelines. If you’ve posted it twice with no response, it probably means no one wants it or you are asking too much, consider reducing the cost or moving the item to the donation pile.

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DOWN with digital!


I am constantly am chasing down my 1-year-old-phone-nabber to remove my cell phone or my husbands from his tiny little hands. And then it dawned on me,.. maybe his taking it away is a good thing... Maybe it's time to unplug. Maybe my child needs to feel more important than any electronic device.

I have spent the past few days, paying attention to other people and their cell phone usage...the children with the biggest smiles always seemed to belong to the adult without a visible cell phone... It saddens me to see a couple or family out to dinner, everyone pouring over his or her device, together but alone. Part of the fun of waiting is the time with pleasant conversation and anticipation.

I have begun to set rules for electronic use, and not just for the kids.
Mostly, I’m engaged with the children during the day. Mostly. Like all smartphone enabled parents, I keep an eye on email and, less importantly, social media. It’s not easy, balancing a part-time career with stay-at-home parenting, especially with several jobs and whilst homeschooling.
  • No cellphones at any mealtime. 
  • No immediate responding to every beep/ring (look for end-points, set a time limit...finish the work at hand and then check).
  • No personal electronic devices between 8am and 8pm.
I want to be Supermom able to play make-believe, write memos, “like” Facebook statuses, and treat my children with patience and kindness, all at once and all the time. Of course, I can’t do it all. By valuing your time in the real world, you’ll teach your children to do the same.

We've all seen the images of the cell phone basket at parties with the cutesie little sign "be with those who are here"... but who's used it? Who's put their phone down for the party... the whole party?


My social life and work deadlines were stressing me out, and I need to unplug. Each day, I now feel  refreshed (and very popular) when I turned my phone back on and see dozens of texts and e-mails from people who apparently missed me.

I even set a blocker that kept me off social-media sites for eight-twelve hours. The temptation to procrastinate expands beyond Facebook to browsing viral-cat-video sites like Buzzfeed, binge-watching shows on Netflix or tapping away at addictive games like Candy Crush. Thankfully, I don't have a problem with all cellphone apps, so a single block works. It may be a bit much, but I tend to lean to the social media crutch to cub my boredom during nap-time...now I have to find better use of this time, like house-cleaning, working out or reading...


So if you’re one of the many who feel guilty about ignoring your family, or find yourself not living in the moment because you’re so busy posting pictures of the moment online, maybe it’s time to take a break and unplug for a few days. It’s all the rage, really.

And if you’re a parent, you might want to find a way to set digital limits for your children too.
But what are the best ways to beat iPhone addiction? Whether you’re trying to study or trying to be a good family member, here’s how you can go on that digital diet.

Check out the Quiet app, it blocks notifications and changes your status on things like Skype to “busy.” If you need  serious break, Delete the apps on your phone. There is an app called Anti-Social that blocks social-media sties. If your digital usage is more than just social media, try LeechBlock which blocks time-wasting sites, you can also target specific sites. If you feel like you are still in control and not yet addicted to your phone, set yourself on a schedule, with time limits... and follow it.

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Sleep Training withOUT tears


I miss sleep. a lot. I don't mind the occasional wakings from a bad dream. Even the child up before the sun, I wouldn't mind... but both... simultaneously... and daily. I AM TIRED. I am tired of waiting to finish the cleaning and laundry and chores and work until all three of my little angels are sleep, just to be stopped before I finish to feed and rock a baby back to sleep, finally let to finish only to be awaken twenty (give or take) after I finally lie down and close my eyes and then every hour for the remainder of the night until the blasted sun wakes another child....UGH. That's IT! I am ready to read Samuel Jackson's rendition of "Go the F@#$ to Sleep".
When I read about the Cry it Out method, all I can think of is an overtired mom sitting cross-legged in the corner covering her ears and eyes with her hands, sobbing just praying for everyone to go to sleep. 
In my house its not the going to sleep thats a problem, that part is a breeze. its the staying asleep that we struggle with. There is always an initial complaint, but usually by days end, all parties are tired enough to resign to their bedrooms without excessive disagreement. The little guy puts up the hardest fight, he just wants his mommy to hold him just a little bit longer...

Teaching your baby to soothe himself to sleep and sleep through the night doesn't have to mean letting him cry it out (CIO). If you don't like the idea of leaving your baby to cry alone – or you've tried CIO methods and they didn't work for you – you may want to consider a more gradual approach that involves fewer tears. I cannot bring myself to letting a little one cry for longer than 3-4 minutes without beginning to sob myself.

On baby #3, I am still reminding myself that each child is different and what works for one child might not work for another. Figuring out an approach that's right for your family could take some trial and error.

Generally speaking, those who favor a no-tears approach over CIO methods consider leaving a child alone and crying to be unnatural, unkind, and a betrayal of the trust your baby is developing in adults and the world around him. In my opinion, its obvious that child and parent develop a bound well before birth and the complete trust a child has for his/her parent is a sacred bond. Bedtime offers an opportunity to connect with your child by developing quiet, cozy nighttime rituals and by quickly responding to your baby's requests for food and comfort.

Pediatrician and attachment parenting advocate William Sears devotes an entire chapter of The Baby Sleep Book to a critique of CIO approaches. Another no-tears advocate, Elizabeth Pantley (author of The No-Cry Sleep Solution), believes that CIO techniques can give your child negative associations with bedtime. Sleep experts who support the CIO approach disagree, stating it isn't traumatic for babies to cry alone for short periods of time with frequent check-ins by Mom or Dad – and the end result is a well-rested, happier child with no excessive need for dependency on comfort bedtime.

Practical tips for finding a no-tears solution
  • Parents are urged to keep sleep logs, nap logs, and night-waking logs. 
  • Encourage your baby to get plenty to eat during the day. He'll learn that daytime is for eating and nights are for sleeping. And he'll be less likely to wake up hungry in the wee hours.
  • Establish a regular nap schedule. A consistent sleep routine during the daytime helps regulate nighttime sleep.
  • Put your baby to bed on the early side, such as 6:30 or 7. Don't fall into the trap of keeping your baby awake so he'll be more tired. An overtired baby may actually have a harder time getting to sleep. Some experts say babies who go to bed earlier sleep longer, too.
  • Make changes slowly. If your baby's on a later schedule, don't suddenly move bedtime from, say, 9:30 to 7 o'clock. Make bedtime a little earlier each night until you reach the time that seems best for your baby.
  • Find a soothing bedtime routine and stick to it. I like our routine of a bath, then a book, then a lullaby, then bed, at the same time every night.
  • Develop some key words, to signal to your child that it's time for sleep. It could be a simple "ssshhhh" sound or a softly spoken phrase like "It's sleepy time." Repeat the sound or phrase when you're soothing your child to sleep or back to sleep so he'll associate it with bedtime. I use a different phrase for nap than I do for bedtime, "Time to snooze" and "Little one, rest your head, it's time for bed"
  • Create a comfortable sleep environment that's tailored to your child. Some babies need more quiet and darkness than others. Recordings of soft music or nature sounds or the sound of a gurgling aquarium can be soothing. Make sure the sheets are cozy (warm them with a hot water bottle or a microwavable heating pad before laying your baby down) and that sleepwear doesn't chafe or bind. Younger babies may sleep better when swaddled. Don't overdress your child or overheat the room. Of course this comfortable sleeping environment varies from child to child.My 1st liked a night-light and soft music, my 2nd silence and darkness, my 3rd static sounds and muted to no lights. 
  • Don't respond to every noise your child makes. Learn to distinguish a real cry from a sleepy whimper. If you're not sure, it's okay to wait for a minute outside the door so you won't disturb him if he's actually asleep.
Many question which methods works best....Truth be told, no single sleep strategy is effective with every baby or even for one baby all the time.

 

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